I have been hoping for months that the AAU National Volleyball tournament would happen. I wanted the show to go on for some light of hope in an unsettling time, for my daughter and her teammates, and for me. I realized that going to tournaments with her is a source of joy and connection for me. I get to connect with Lily and with parents of teammates that are my friends.
This last week allowed for light to shine in and growth to occur. Parents socialized and talked about life. The girls enjoyed each other’s company and being teenagers. Most of all, they competed together. They encouraged one another and played as a team. They worked towards a common goal with focus and passion. They learned to persevere. They had fun and enjoyed every moment.
The tournament was different for obvious reasons. The energy was different. Not bad, just different…less high strung. But it was completely satisfying, settling and therapeutic. The emails that were exchanged between coaches and parents after the tournament were positive, encouraging, appreciative, and the very definition of love and respect. I teared up reading every one of them. We lost half a season together but certainly made up for it in the end.
My hope for everyone during this time is that they find a soul satisfying activity that brings light and hope. Something that brings connection and peace. A reminder of what is important to them and brings joy.
As I write this, I remember that we saw a rainbow as we drove into Orlando where the tournament was held. I thought to myself that this is a great sign .. a sign of beautiful things to come.